When Should You Actually See a Doctor About This?

A lot of women wait far longer than they need to before bringing this up, often because they're not sure if what they're experiencing is “worth mentioning.” It IS!

Worth Raising With a Doctor If...

✦   Discomfort or pain during sex has lasted more than a few weeks

✦   Dryness is a daily presence, not just an occasional thing

✦   You've noticed bleeding, unusual discharge, or persistent burning

✦   You're avoiding intimacy altogether because of how it feels physically

✦   You simply want to understand what's changing and why

Making the Most of the Appointment

A little preparation goes a long way. Consider noting down beforehand:

✦   When the symptoms started, and whether they've changed over time

✦   Whether it hurts at the entrance, deeper inside, or both

✦   Is there anything that makes it better/worse

✦   What you've already tried, lubricant, moisturizer, or nothing yet

✦   Any questions you want answered before you leave the room

The reality is that sex should not be painful. And while common, it is not normal. And you absolutely do not have to suffer alone.

This page is general guidance, not medical advice. A gynaecologist, general practitioner, or pelvic floor physical therapist can give you an assessment specific to you.