Elixir Play's Sex Toy Guide for Men (Top Picks for Her Pleasure)

Note from our founder, Lara

Thank you so much for visiting this page. Something that really surprised me in the most positive way in the first year of this business was that 30% of our orders were from men! And so many men have reached out to ask specific questions about how they can help their partners. It is amazing and exactly what I had hoped for. The fact that our products are female focussed does not mean men cannot and should not enjoy the experience too. I want to bring couples together and help everyone have better sex! So please see below some information that may help.

The benefits of pleasure products:

Pleasure products have many benefits extending far beyond their abilities to deliver orgasms. They help promote blood flow, help relax muscles and also allow for more specific stimulation of the clitoral area (where around 70% of women need stimulation to orgasm). That fact right there is crucial. No matter what your size, fit and abilities – around 70% of women still need that external stimulation to orgasm.

How can our products help:

Using pleasure products during sex can help both people. It allows you to spend more time using your hands for intimacy and touch (a very underrated element) and be more free in your own body. Allowing her to hold the product and deliver external stimulation or for you to hold means that you both benefit from the additional vibration.

So which product? Best sex toys for HER

Well, any of them. Here is a breakdown of how each one could help. As a disclaimer, please always talk with your partner first. Consent is at the core of what we do. Sometimes having a product and giving her space to explore is even more beneficial than using it together to start. The goal is for her to feel comfortable and relaxed in her own body and the same for you.

Garnet: Garnet is always the most obvious choice because she can be used as a cock ring too. This means she can be placed over your penis, providing a level of constriction, which may assist in erectile dysfunction (please check studies for this). She has a significant vulva-like shape that is ideal to be placed against the vulva area. You can also use in your hand or she can hold in hers for vulval stimulation.

Amethyst: While Amethyst may not look like she can be used for you both, she absolutely can. You can turn her upside down and use her flat surface externally while having sex. You can also bend her and use the smaller part on her and the longer arm around your scrotum for some extra vibrations.

Ruby: Ruby can be used as a guided massager. Place your fingers in her grooves and glide her over her body. Her bulb is perfect for clitoral stimulation, but she is fantastic for all over body massage.

Emerald: Emerald has some beautiful curves and is a great travel vibe. Turn her upside down and allow her flat surfaces to stimulate her clitoral area. Her long handle means you have more flexibility for different positions!

As always, if you have any more questions, please feel free to reach out. These are simply some suggestions based on feedback and are by no means the only options you have.