1. CLEAN AND CLEAN. Our vaginas are a sacred, sensitive and balanced part of our bodies. Anytime you are using toys, please make sure you give it a great clean before and after. There are some amazing products out there, and we have some on our site too. Make sure the product is able to be used with silicone 😊
  2. Even when we are in the best mindset, sometimes our bodies don’t cooperate with us. Using a lubricant may enhance your pleasure and also potentially reduce the friction. There are many lubricants available that are PH balanced and provide an even more pleasurable experience.
  3. Our vaginas are actually a muscle that opens and closes as needed. If something doesn’t feel right, it could be a variety of reasons. Perhaps you may need some lubricant or the product may need to be adjusted for you. Easing into using a vibrator, particularly internal will help build the momentum and overall satisfaction. We are all different and unique and the way in which we can experience pleasure will vary person to person. It helps to have a great mindset so finding a way to feel sexy and comfortable inside yourself will help you in this as well.
  4. If you don’t orgasm immediately – don’t give up. It can take time to feel comfortable and find what works for you. When you are able to relax and work with your body, you will find pleasure is much more achievable
  5. Finding the right toy. Check out our guide for choosing the right toy. Given than 70% of women require external stimulation, starting with an external toy can be a great way to start out. And always remember, BIGGER is not always BETTER
  6. Always keep it safe. Don’t let anyone force you into using toys. Our bodies have an amazing way of trying to protect us and this can contribute to extreme pain with sex.
  7. Have fun. Sex is meant to be enjoyable. Sex with yourself or partner should always be an enjoyable experience. It is a great way to release endorphins and connect with your body.
  8. Spent time. Get to know your own body. Touch and feel to find where your sensitive areas are. The clitoris is like an iceberg and different women will find pleasure in different places. Whether using your own hands or a toy, have some fun working out where it feels best. There are no rules for what makes you feel good.
  9. Listen to your body. The clitoris in particular is made up of thousands of nerve endings. While this can help us achieve pleasure and orgasms, it also means that it can feel pain. If you are finding any stimulation painful, ease it off. More is not always better. That is why all our products have different vibrating frequencies and speeds. It also helps sometimes to hold the vibrator a small distance away from the clitoris. This can still provide vibrating sensations but in a less intense way.
  10. Hopefully all this information and empowerment can help you achieve the pleasure you deserve.